Choices
• You can stay the same or you can change.
• You can only change yourself.
• If you stay the same who are you hurting?
• Will you stay the same?
Do you have an investment in keeping things the same? If so, what is it? Name it!
By keeping things the same -- no one has to change. Is that what you want?
If you really want to change -- how do you want to change? Be specific! List your behavior.
Why should you want to change anyway? Think about the relationship in question! For whose sake should you change? Be careful with this answer - we do not want to nurture destructive co-dependent behaviors.
Are you trying to please others or yourself? What choice-changes can satisfy you and others around you? List specific behaviors! List the reasons you should or should not change.
How long can you sustain the changes?
